John_Smith
Johnshi
I don't think being accused of being a gooner just because you like touhou is normal, that person is probably just projecting because they spend lots of time on gooner websites and saw touhou there so think it's a gooner thing. Considering you also say that people get "bad vibes" from you your whole life though, maybe something about your look is making you look like the stereotypical "creepy guy" from tv shows and superficial people are treating you differently because of this, maybe you could try changing it to different glasses or getting a better hairstyle etc., it's just an idea so don't take it too seriously though.People are so quick to accuse of some weird stuff like 'gooner' or even worse, that I just don't mention that am a fan of Touhou irl.
To answer the question in the title of the thread, I don't hide the fact that I'm a touhou fan at all, but in real life I'm also kind of a "quiet guy" who doesn't volunteer any information that wasn't asked for, and strategically chooses the answers to questions to try and make the conversation as short as possible, so I would be unlikely to ever mention touhou unless the person asking what I like is already kind of my friend.